You know, in the back of your mind right now you’re thinking that I’m crazy. Yes, an engagement party is a party that is thrown that celebrates your engagement, but there is a lot more to it than that. Many couples and their families throw out the idea of having an engagement party because to them it just seems like an extra expense at t he time. But what many couples don’t realize is that engagement parties are somewhat of a wedding tradition, and they are starting to make a comeback in today’s society, and really are becoming pretty popular. Typically, an engagement party is not only a time to celebrate the engagement, but also a time for the families and friends to meet each other, if they haven’t already. So while you may know that engagement parties are meant to announce your engagement to the world and celebrate with family and friends, here are some little known facts you may not know.
Engagement Parties are Informal
Engagement parties tend to be small, intimate and informal, typically consisting of close friends and relatives. Engagement parties can be as formal or as casual as you choose, but typically they don’t include very many people. Another great thing about engagement parties, they focus on the individual couple rather than the bride or groom to be. You don’t have to spend a fortune on this.
No Gifts are Given at an Engagement Party
As an engagement party is typically thrown one to three months from when the couple gets engaged, it is meant to be before they start their wedding registries. Leave the gift-getting to the future bridal showers. Instead, engagement parties are meant to celebrate the engagement, and not give a gift.
Who Throws an Engagement Party?
An engagement party is typically hosted by the couple’s parents, or another close relative. Etiquette surrounding engagement parties states that an engagement party is not to be thrown by the couple - and that it is in very poor taste to request an engagement party. However, many couples today are choosing to throw their own engagement parties, so really the choice is up to you.
When Should an Engagement Party Be?
As I mentioned above, engagement parties typically take place within a few months from the actual engagement. For couples with long engagements, your engagement party should take place about a year before the wedding, and they are a great place to hand out save the date cards with your favors. I know that when you get engaged, the last thing you’ll need to add the extra stress of throwing an engagement party, hence why they are usually thrown by family or friends. Keep in mind that while engagement parties can not only be a lot of fun, they can also be a time you’ll treasure with your family and friends. Also, if you don’t want to add the extra stress or expense that they aren’t really a necessity.
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April 9th, 2008 at 4:48 pm
My fiancee’s godmother hosted ours. We really didn’t know what to expect, but it was truly one of the best parts of the whole process.