I know that when you’re planning your wedding you probably have this idea in your head about how you want your look, feel and to be perceived by all of your wedding guests. There is nothing wrong with it, it’s your wedding that you’re planning, and you want it to be exactly the wedding of your dreams. I agree with you on that. But what I don’t agree with, and I’m about to explain it in more detail, is when the bride puts unnecessary monetary burdens on their bridesmaids, groomsmen, and especially, their flower girls. Let me explain my position on this.
My sister called me the other irate at some friends of hers. They had asked my sister’s niece to be a flower girl in their wedding. Being a close friend of theirs, of course they agreed to let their daughter have a part in the wedding ceremony. But when the bride contacted the girl’s parents about the flower girl dress that the little girl was to wear, they were in for a shock.
Today, more and more brides are starting to let their bridesmaids have more of a say in the style of bridesmaid dress that they wear. It’s a great idea, and your bridesmaids will totally appreciate it if you choose to go that way too. The fact is, the chances that one style of dress will suit the body type of each of your bridesmaids is slim. With my wedding, all of my bridesmaids were basically the same size, and I knew that a simple A-line dress would compliment each one of them, so they all had the same style. There has always been a great debate among brides during their wedding planning if they should have all of their brides looking uniform and the same, or if they should allow the bridesmaid to choose their own dress. Here are some great reasons why you should allow your bridesmaids to choose their own style of dresses.
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